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Daily Circuit Blog
Stephanie Curtis

Three perspectives on bridging the marriage opinion gap

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Now that Gov. Mark Dayton has signed the same-sex marriage bill into law, we asked the participants on this week's Roundtable for advice on how to bridge gaps between Minnesotans who support same-sex marriage and those who oppose it.

Jim Wallis, author of "On God's Side," thinks we are on the cusp of a nationwide change:

I think more and more people, particularly younger people,  are coming to believe in equal protection under the law.  And even if they are still not sure – like young Evangelicals – about the theological issues, there's too many of their friends or families who are gay.  And they want equal [protection] under the law.

I also think that it is important that there is real religious liberty and freedom for a faith community to figure this out for themselves over time: their biblical wrestling, their theological debates. So there has to be respect for that conversation.

But what we’re talking about here is civil marriage. And so as long as faith communities are protected … I think there is going to be growing perception that [there is] equal protection under the law. That doesn't mean that different views can't be respected.

The Rev. Paul Slack, pastor of the New Creation Church and president of ISAIAH, a political advocacy group for people of faith, says the law doesn't alter his religious beliefs:

This is a civil law. I've long come to the reality that America and government does not define my faith nor my religion and it is not the place that I look to to guide me in terms of what I believe about my faith and my religion. I don't look to government for that, but I do look to my faith to tell me how to treat people whether I agree with them or not.

I can disagree with anybody at any time in any moment.  But my God still requires me to treat you with dignity and respect. And to respect your decisions and your opinion.

Rabbi Marcia Zimmerman, of Temple Israel in Minneapolis, thinks Minnesotans from all backgrounds can find some common ground:

I think the place we can come together is talking about love. We can talk about "love makes a family." We can come together under that.  It doesn't matter who is speaking that. We can hear the story without politicizing that.